Someone new...a playmate, maybe?

We'll there's someone on the horizon that I met on-line last week. A few posts, a few emails and now text. He wants to hear my voice, but I think I'll make him wait...can't give up the goods all at once. Where is the anticipation in that?

Oddly enough, like hubby's girlfriend, he is also 26. He also resembles hubby a little - like I resemble hubby's girlfriend. Weird. :) Why the universe throws these things at you sometimes...are you kidding me?

Could be fun, we'll see what evolves. Next Thursday I will make it a mission to begin HNT. Love this idea.

You don't know, what you don't know...

I am so disappointed. Not only do I find that my husband and his girlfriend are not using safe sex practices as in a condom, but now I am finding out that she is not using birth control either. I know she has had a lot of gyn problems and the chance of her getting pregnant is slim to none. But I also know that she has a 4 year old, and though it took me 3 years I have an 8 year old. My doc even told me told me (after my hysterectomy) that he had no idea how I ever got pregnant - there was so much against it. None the less here were are with two children.

I was supposed to be headed to the movies today with my hubby and son, but found this out as I was getting ready. Chose not to go. I sent them (hubby and g/f, not my son) both a simple, but curt text that I felt it was unsafe, rude and disrespectful. And now am venting my emotions here instead of allowing them to escalate into full out rage - this was my old way and I am trying to change those aspects of myself.

Deep breath...in...out...in...out...